Four Decades of One Love: Reflecting on our 40 Years of Marriage Union

Forty years. Who would have ever imagined us celebrating 40 years of marriage from 1985 to 2025? It should have felt like a lifetime, but it didn't. Reaching this milestone is a testimony to our shared journey, the deep love, and the adventures we embraced together.

The Ruby Anniversary, 40 years: A Symbol of Enduring Passion

The ruby has a deep red color, which represents the blood of Jesus, which covered our souls, our marriage relationship, and our enduring passion, strength, and vibrancy. A love that has lasted through the years and grown more decisive moment by moment. Like a priceless-cut ruby, love must be refined, polished, and buffed. This process enhances its value over time.

Looking Back: We have Cherished Memories and lasting evolution over the past four decades. Our journey has been a continuous process of growth and learning, both individually and as a couple. We have accumulated a treasure chest of valuable memories, from the early days of our marriage, marked by complex trials and tribulations, to the joys of raising a family and navigating life's twists and turns. Each year has added a unique chapter to our story. Our journey is a testament to the power of love and the potential for growth in every relationship, inspiring us to continue nurturing our bond.

The Pillars of a Lasting Marriage

People often ask us about our "secret" to our long-lasting marriage. Several "C" words are crucial:

• Cultivation: Each of us must cultivate and challenge each other to grow daily.

• Commitment: We make a conscious choice every day to be together.

• Communication: We are conscious and intentional about fostering open and honest dialogue, even when it's challenging.

• Compromise: We strive to find common ground, respecting each other's needs and interests.

• Compassion: We decide to show understanding and empathy for each other's journey.

• Companionship: We choose to enjoy each other's presence, being best friends.

More Than Just a Milestone: A Testament to Love

Beyond the celebrations and gifts, our 40th anniversary serves as a powerful reminder of the incredible bond we share. It is a bond that has weathered storms, celebrated victories, and grown stronger with each passing year. It is a testament to the love that has guided us through every season of our lives and a promise of many more years of shared adventures, laughter, and love to come.

To spouses everywhere, the journey is fantastic. Each one of us can be a rock, a best friend, and the love of one's life. Here's to the joy, the laughter, and the love that fills our days and warms our hearts. Here's to forever.

To couples celebrating milestones, this journey can be inspiring. Continue to nurture your relationships, pray for one another daily, forgive each other continually, communicate openly, and cherish every moment together. Love truly is a beautiful thing.